31 Drawings of December, week 3

Day 14

The Napkin’s Guide To Happy Living: Transform your obligations into your opportunities

Drawn 12/31/2013


Day 15

Things to tell your kids: Make good friends and keep good friends

drawn on 12/1/2016


Day 16

The best time to make friends is before you need them.

drawn on 12/6/2016


Day 17

I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.

drawn on 12/15/2011


Day 18

An ordeal is an ideal that isn’t yours.

drawn on 12/16/2011


Day 19

Gift Giving Note #1: How you give is more important than what you give.

drawn on 12/10/2012


Day 20

Gift Giving Note #2: A child cannot give what she does not receive.

drawn on 12/11/2012


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31 Drawings of December, week 2

Day 7

“Worry is like a rocking chair: both give you something to do, but neither gets you anywhere.”

drawn on a napkin, 12/6/2011


Day 8


“The only people you should try to get even with are those who have helped you.”

Drawn 12/13/2011


Day 9

“Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance.”

Drawn 12/5/2017


Day 10

“The Napkin’s Guide To Happy Living: Act and Think in Terms of Love”

drawn 12/10/2013


Day 11

The Napkin’s Guide to Happy Living: Develop the Courage to Say and Do What You Love

drawn 12/11/2013


Day 12

The Napkin’s Guide to Happy Living: Creat a Physical World That Makes You Smile

drawn 12/13/2013


Day 13

The Napkin’s Guide to Happy Living: Educate Yourself So You Can Explain Yourself

drawn 12/16/2013


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31 Drawings of December, week 1

These are napkin drawings I’ve done in December over the decades. I am posting them daily on social media but am combining them here to post weekly.

Day 1

“Pain makes people think. Thought makes people wise. Wisdom makes life endurable.”
Drawn 12/11/2000


Day 2




“We would often be ashamed of our finest actions if the world understood all the motives which produced them.”
– La Rochefoucauld
Drawn 12/04/2001


Day 3

“Destiny is what you are supposed to do in life. Fate is what kicks you in the ass to make you do it.” – Henry Miller

Drawn 12/13/2002


Day 4

“Confusion is the welcome mat at the door of creativity.”

Drawn 12/8/2010


Day 5

“The distance a goldfish swims is not controlled by the bowl.”

Drawn 12/14/2009


Day 6

“Patience with others is love. Patience with self is hope. Patience with God is faith.”

Drawn 12/12/2011


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September and October Drawings


Red Mother

This woman is a worship leader at our church. She sings on stage but when not singing she sits on side row with her family. Today her son was intensely interested in a stretchy rope that he brought with him and spent a while sitting in front of her playing with it. She did a great job parenting him, using a nice combination of letting him do his thing with reminders to behave and pay attention. She didn’t enforce, just reminded.


Natalie in Church

I found myself in church sitting next to Natalie and her family from my community group. I usually don’t sit right next to people and if I do I certainly don’t usually draw them. But I know Natalie and I know that her whole family are church doodlers so I felt comfortable drawing her. When I painted the drawing later I didn’t remember the exact color scheme except she was in light clothes and there was pink here and there. So, that is what i imagined and I chose the colors.


Eight Angry Saints

When I am sitting in church, cafe and waiting room and have finished a drawing I often will not start a new one from observation. I will just start making something up and draw that. I will often just start with a long line and then let that tell me where to go. The woman’s hair in the front was the first long line. I did that one then just started repeating the shape of the face and the hair, adding in variations just to see what expressions and looks I could come up with. I added halos and all of a sudden they were saints.


Scene in a Museum

Sometimes I see someone’s face and something stands out that I am attracted to. In this case I just happened to glimpse a woman with a very distinct nose. I wasn’t able to see much more of her so instead of trying to draw her from life I just started with the curve of her nose as I remembered it and made up most the rest. I also remembered her hair style and incorporated an stylized version of that as well. When I draw from memory and with no exact reference I will often turn the person into a museum piece of some sort. In this case she became a sculptural bust. But she was on the right side face left and that left a big blank space on the right. So I thought it would be fun to draw her looking at a painting of the rest of herself.


Preacherman

We had a guest preacher a few weeks back. He was a snappy dresser so I started to draw him. However, I didn’t really like his message, it was too preachy, formulaic and simplistic for my taste.


Mindscapes

This woman was in front of me at church. Once I finished drawing her profile I lost interest in drawing the rest of the church scene so I started making up a story about her using images instead of words. What she thought, what she said, what she actually was living and how different they were.


Nine Happy Nudes

I was scanning a sketchbook from 2020 recently and noticed a pattern in a number of drawings. There were a number of nudes with arms raised in joy, ranging from the simplest of stick figures to full nudes in a domestic setting. I thought they all looked happy so I am gathering them together and showing them to you.

Part of the reason for showing them is because I saw the pattern. But another is that happy nudes are a rarity. Most of the time when a nude is presented in art, they are meant to be seen as serious or sensual or sexual or erotic or romantic or beautiful. Not many are created to be seen as happy. But happy is just as legitimate an emotion for someone who is nude as any other emotion or feeling.



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