Yea, but well-conducting an unavoidable quarrel is SO MUCH WORK! Yelling and screaming
and ranting and raving is so much easier! I know, I know, I don’t mean in the long
term, but short term ‘well-conducting’ is like doing a run among rocks and boulders,
having to look and think and react well and fast and look ahead and be focused.
Ranting and raving is like running on an open stretch with no obstacles – you just run
as fast and as furious as you can and you can be oblivious to your surroundings if you
want.









