Five Dangerous Things I Did – Enjoying Life #4


It’s no secret, today is #4 of our ‘Enjoying Life’ series!


Enjoying Life #4


Five Dangerous Things I Did as a Teenager that I Enjoyed 

Taking my small boat out alone after midnight for a rendezvous with 3 European women, 2 Swedish, 1 Finnish, who were anchored out on a boat in a nearby cove.  My buddies and I had met them earlier that day while water skiing.  Nobody really believed me when I told them what happened, but it did. Kids, if you are reading this, don’t do this.

Hitchhiking from Connecticut to Ohio during my freshman year of college with my roommate.  We promised the young couple who picked us up and who were eloping to Florida (or something like that) a joint or two if they took us all the way to the campus, which they did and we did.  We were two days late and didn’t think it all that important to tell anyone where we were. Our friends and family weren’t happy about that but we had fun.  Kids, if you are reading this, don’t do this.

Streaking (running naked, a fad in the 70s) across my college campus in the snow in the middle of the night and getting stuck behind a grove of trees with 3 friends when a performance let out at the local theatre and the cars exited on the road we had to cross to get back to the dorm. We were stuck for about 10 minutes and it was COLD! Kids, if you are reading this, don’t do this.

Taking the air conditioner out of my girlfriend’s bedroom window from the outside so I could sneak in and having to run like hell when I almost got caught by her father.  I guess I could trace my running career to that night if I really want to. Kids, if you are reading this, don’t do this.

Driving to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina for spring break with a friend.  Our parents were out of town and we didn’t think it necessary to tell them we were going. We meant to go to Florida but the car broke down in South Carolina so we spent our break in a Burger King parking lot near the beach. Luckily, we knew some girls who were staying in Myrtle Beach so we hung out with them for most of the week.  The car (an old Rambler my dad got for $200.00) was toast by the time we got home and had to be junked. Kids, if you are reading this, don’t do this.

What dangerous things did you do when you were a teenager?


Drawing and remembrance by Marty Coleman

Quote by Frederich Nietzsche, 1844 – 1900, German writer and philosopher


The secret of reaping the greatest enjoyment from life is to live dangerously

Should We Condemn the Past? – History Lesson #4

1, 2, and 3 are past, so that makes this day #4 of History Lesson Week.

Should we condemn the past? History Lesson #4


This sentiment, ‘every past is worth condemning’, probably infuriates you as it did me when I first read it.  I am often the one in arguments about history to defend the past era and the decisions made then.  I don’t mean I approve of them, obviously I would not make many of the same decisions now.  But that’s the point; I am in the present, not the past.  Just as you have to take into consideration the age and mental capacity of your child when you react to what they say and do, you must do the same for the people of the past.  They knew what they knew and as a result they said and did thing based on that knowledge, not based on our knowledge.  So, I typically am against condemning the past, even if we now can say we don’t approve of the actions they took.

But after reading this simple sentence over a number of times I am starting to see the value in it.  By condemning the past and how they acted we are saying that we have learned, we have grown, we have gone beyond their understanding.  That of course can be a two-edged sword. Not all knowledge from the past is wrong and often we find ourselves as a society moving back to past practices because we have found that our ‘progress’ really wasn’t so progressive.  But plenty of knowledge from that past is worth condemning.

We don’t need to reexamine if slavery is something we should bring back. It has been condemned as wrong and we will not return to it.  We don’t need to investigate if the subjugation of women is something we want to reinstitute.  We know they are equal to the male of the species in every way and we are not going to return to the days of them being condemned to a lesser life.  We condemn that attitude and any and all rationalizations, however valid they may have seemed at some point in the past.  We know now they are not valid and we will not let them be used again.

The last point about women brings us to a dilemma.  The past isn’t always in the past.  We have subjugation of women going on all over the globe as I write this today.  They are not allowed to vote, to drive, to own property, to have their own money, to participate as an equal member of society. The societies that are perpetrating this are still using the same arguments we once used not so long ago (don’t forget, less than 100 years ago women did not have the right to vote in the USA).

We can also find it with us today in the US and other supposedly enlightened western countries.  You don’t have to go much farther than the headlines of the last week over Rush Limbaugh’s disgusting statements about one woman in particular (and be inference virtually all women in the US) to know we still have a long way to go to move past some of those same rationalizations we thought we had left behind.


Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche, 1844-1900, German philosopher