Category Archives: becoming

>Motivation #1 – One Half of Knowing

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Who do you know needs this?
I know what I want, but it is much harder to visualize, categorize and verbalize what it is you need to do away with to get what you want.  I think much of this struggle has to do with taking things for granted.  

For example, the young woman who wants to pursue her career may not immediately realize that it will also mean leaving the home she is safe in.  You would think she would, but she may not even know it until she has moved away to that distant city.  It’s then that she realizes she didn’t just remove the annoying, stifling things of home, but also the great things.  She might be fine with it, she might decided it was too much to give up and go back to be close to home.  

And in truth that is how it should be. You can’t know who you are and what you want, I mean REALLY want, until you do have to live with and feel the absence of what you had to give up.  It’s how we grow and find out who we really are and what we really want in life.
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Drawing by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Sidney Howard, 1891-1939, American playwright and screenwriter.  

By the way, do you know why playwright has ‘wright’ in it, instead of ‘write’ or ‘right’?  It’s because when something is wrought, like wrought iron, it is made by a ‘wright’.  Thus, the person who writes a play, is a playwright.

>Striving To Be Better, Oft

>I love the grand gesture. I love the big proclamations of gratefulness, love. I love the big confessions and repentences, as seen on TV and sometimes in real life. I am a sucker for them.

But, sometimes those gestures can backfire. Sometimes they are overblown hyperbole; goals not attainable, transformations not sustainable. They come from the right place. They are the soul feeling guilty, the heart needing absolution and a gigantic conversion seems to be just the right thing.

I will no longer be the dog, the ass. I will BECOME the good man, the redeemed woman, the solid citizen, the consummate artist we say to ourselves as we cement our resolve to be better.

But the truth of life is that we backslide. The truth of life is that we return to who we didn’t want to be. We don’t completely return. We don’t not make progress. But we don’t usually stay up in the stratosphere of our epiphanies. What we really do is slowly become. We slowly transform. Yes, sometimes it’s faster than other times. But life transformation is not the montage with music score, it is a barely perceptible change in most cases.

It would be so much more fun if it were like in the movies, wouldn’t it? Maybe it would be. But now that I am older I am glad it isn’t. I like the slow change, the real change of becoming better where you don’t lose the good you already are.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by William Shakespeare, 1564-1616, English playwright

>What One Becomes

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napkin_5-10-02_Eyes and Mouth

I like this quote. It doesn’t make perfect sense and it takes some thinking to grasp it, but in the
end I think it is true, our mouths…our words, either create, reinforce a path or cause us to change
directions.

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