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Temptation and Decision Fatigue

I read a great article online about Decision Making in the New York Times Magazine this morning. It led me to today’s drawing and topic. I will link to the magazine at the bottom of the page.

temptation

It’s All Your Fault

If you only had more willpower. If you only learned to discipline yourself.  If you only weren’t so spoiled, gluttonous, slothful, lazy, indulgent, selfish, stupid, immature and short-sighted. If only you had more glucose.  WHAT? Glucose?

Well ok, it’s Your Brain’s Fault

Once again, science is making progress in understanding who we are, how we work and what we can do to improve.  There has been a number of studies in recent years that go under the heading of Decision Fatigue and Ego Depletion. What do those terms mean?  Decision fatigue is the phenomenon whereby each decision you make in a day diminishes your willpower and ability to make subsequent decisions.  Your brain acts like a muscle in the sense that it gets tired after so much exercise that it really can’t work that well anymore.  Ego Depletion is when your ability to retain your decision making skills at your ego’s normal level is diminished.  That is why we tend to make bad decisions (or can’t make one at all) in the afternoon or evening, after a long day of decision making.  But why is this? Well, research seems to be indicating that the reason is a depletion of glucose in the brain. Sugar basically.  it doesn’t stop the brain from working, it just stunts the decision making areas of the brain.  

Parole in the Afternoon

In a study of Israeli parole boards they found that being brought up for parole in the early morning, right after breakfast, the convict had a much better chance of recieving parole than a criminal with the same sentence for the same crime had if he came before the parole board late in the morning, before lunch, or late in the afternoon. In all these cases the difference was the board members inability to decide, not the individual merits of the cases. Why was that? Because they had already made so many decisions that the best, easiest decision was to make none at all.  Leave the decision for another day was the best choice in their decision fatigued mind. And what made their mind fatigued in this way? Lack of glucose.

The Dieting Catch 22

So, how does this apply to dieting? Dieting is all about will power, right? It’s all about deciding again and again and again, not to eat certain foods. What does that insistent decision making do? It depletes one’s ego, the person’s ability to make decisions in their best interest. So, what is needed to restore that ability to make the right choice in dieting? Eating is what is needed. What to eat? Sugar.  How is that for a catch 22?

1. In order not to eat, a dieter needs willpower.

2. In order to have willpower, a dieter needs to eat. *

Moral failure vs Brain Science

One of the best things about our paying attention to scientific discoveries is that it lessens judgment but increases our ability to change and grow.  It is the search for the truth that can help us, and the old, simplistic moral condemnation is ineffective (and alway have been) because it doesn’t help us understand and act on what the real truth is. And the real truth is that we must pay attention to our biology, our chemistry, our cultural and social behaviors and analyse them not with ignorant condemnation but with neutral and effective judgment.  

Judge Yes

Judgment of self is not condemnation of self. It is realizing that you are doing this one thing and, without condemning yourself, that can decide that you will change doing that one thing into doing another thing. The truth is you won’t be more effective (and more likely will be less effective) by dumping a truckload of guilt on yourself in the process.  It’s not an excuse and it’s not a license to do something bad. It is just a more effective and positive way to pursue the change you want to see in your life.

 

Do You Suffer From Decision Fatigue? – New York Times Magazine 8/17/11

Let me know what you think of this.

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote by Mae West

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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>Many Complain of Their Looks

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Aha Moment News:
Hello everyone!  Just wanted to let you know the results of the Aha Moment project.  I didn’t make it into the top 10 so my ad will not be running in 2011.  Thank you all so much for your support and your votes. It was a lot of fun and a great opportunity to get The Napkin Dad Story out there. I appreciate you all!
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Imagine your thoughts could be seen. What would they look like in the mirror?  Would they be as pretty or ugly or boring or exciting as you see your physical self?  Would your thoughts be ‘presentable’ to others?  Do you have to put a lot of ‘makeup’ on your thoughts before you go out of the house?


It’s so much easier to put on the right clothes and other stylings to look better than you would otherwise look.  But our thoughts are really what carry us more than our looks so how do we go about making sure our thoughts are what we want them to be?  It’s no different than with your looks.  You can do one or more of these 3 things.  

  1. You can put on ‘thought makeup’. Present a better version of your thoughts to the public. Nothing wrong with that, it’s what civilization is made of.
  2. You can look at your raw thoughts, just like your raw looks, and find the value and beauty in them instead of seeing the flaws, shortcomings and insufficiencies.
  3. You can train your thoughts, just as you can train your muscles of your body, to be better than they used to be – to be stronger, more resilient, less inclined to be injured or disabled.
It might give a whole new meaning to the idea of a ‘make over’!
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote is a Yiddish proverb

>Be Not Angry That You Cannot

>As Professor Higgins says in ‘My Fair Lady, ‘Why can’t a woman be more like a man?’ That is a sexist version of what so many wish, that the people they deal with would be different than they are; less annoying, less hard to understand, less odd in the way they do things.

How often is that our first reaction because it is so much easier to desire that than to actually figure out, and implement, how we can change instead.

Not just because we have areas we would like to change, but also so we have a better reaction to those around us. So everyone else isn’t an annoyance, but is just another person to try to understand, like we hope they would try to understand us.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Thomas A’Kempis, 1380-1471, German Priest and Theologian

>A Man's Mind, Stretched

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Sometimes my drawings are just weird.

Here is my process of creating the napkins. Each morning I start with
a quote. I think about the day before or that morning and see if there
is a particular idea that comes to mind. Then I go looking for some
good quotes about that idea, either in the many quote books I have
or online. Sometimes I make the quote up, but not too often.

After I write the quote on the napkin, then I think about what the drawing
might be. I don’t take a long time with that decision, since I originally was
drawing these while I was making lunches for my daughters and had to work
fast.

I usually trust that I will come up with something interesting and just go for it.
But trusting your mind, your eye, your choices, also means you are sort of
walking a high wire. You have committed to do this thing and even if half way
across a big wind blows, you still need to finish. Sometimes my ‘big wind’ is a
odd color choice, or a pretty bizarre creature or person I have drawn into the napkin.

I like the challenge of figuring out how to make something work within the
limits of that odd thing I have in the drawing already. In this case the idea
of having a mind stretched was obviously the starting point. But I didn’t
want a bald person so I chose to have the hair stretched out to signify the
mind being stretched. B the funny hand/bird lips/sucking stretching things
on either side were a bit of a mess. Then I added the volcanoes, which I
always like as signifyers of something momentous and powerful. But the lava
turned out to be sort of confusing and dark, obscuring the volcanoes a bit
more than I wanted it to. I just kept going until I felt it looked interesting
and stimulating to the eye.

Sometimes this process can lead to beautiful images, and sometimes to
very strange images and sometimes to failed but interesting images. I am
not sure if this one is in the 2nd or 3rd category, but it doesn’t seem to
belong in the 1st, as best I can tell.

What do you think?

quote by Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr. – USA, Supreme Court Justice, 1841-1935

>A Mind All Logic

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I know this one is a bit creepy but the quote had knives and blood in it, what was I
going to do? But there is a truth here. The truth is that logic is a step-by-step
process of thinking through a problem, not a way of life or the exclusive method for
interpersonal relationships.

You ever come across that person who gets irate if you don’t comprehend
and go along with his or her logic? I used to be that person. I am still that person
some times. I thought I was right. I had my reasons. They were good reasons.
My arguments made sense. But the other person didn’t agree, didn’t see, didn’t
understand, or plain didn’t care. grrrrr.

It wasn’t until I went through marital counseling with my now unwife that I realized
the difference between trying to win an argument and trying to win someone over.
I had always just been thinking the logic of the argument was enough. After
the counseling I realized that the argument wasn’t what was important, my wife
was who was important.

Just as a side note, it was ironic that the best, most real communication we had
as a couple was in the final year of our marriage. It didn’t save our marriage
but it did teach us both great lessons on how to communicate and care for the
feelings and thoughts of another person. I am better for it and am grateful I went
through it, even though the cost was high.

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Don’t forget, my Napkin Drawing exhibition is up from now until June 6th.

Come to the opening reception on May 14th, 6-8p

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