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Heroes vs Celebrities – Heroes Week #3

I hope I become a famous celebrity for posting Napkin #3 of Heroes Week!

Heroes vs Celebrities

 

Autographs, Please

I remember reading an article in Flying magazine once about my father.  The article was about his exploits as a test pilot in the 1950s, for which he became quite famous. He was famous for a brief while among the general population and has had continued fame within the aviation community ever since.  Still, to this day, I get regular inquiries and requests to interview him, visit him, have autographed photos of him sent. I sent one to Scotland a few years back.

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Skeets Coleman (right) and engineer with the XFY-1 POGO

Legend in Residence

The article started out talking about how the author met my father.  He met him when my father was hired to be Publisher of Business and Commercial Aviation Magazine.  But that is not what the author said. He said he met him when my father was hired to be ‘Legend in Residence’ (or something close, the exact words escape me right now).  I understand that when you are very high up in business they are often hiring your reputation, not just you.  They wanted the cache of saying they had a legendary aviator at the helm. It gave their enterprise gravitas and authority.  I get that.  

 

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Skeets Coleman and Jerry Brown

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Skeets Coleman and Michael Bloomberg

 

Celebrity vs Substance

At the same time it did seem, in my eyes, to diminish his accomplishments during the rest of his career in aviation.  He didn’t just fly one amazing test flight and then do nothing. He had also been a fighter/bomber pilot in WWII, an airport owner, a salesman of high end corporate jets, a corporal in the Marine Reserves, an inventor and innovator in aviation equipment and airplanes.  And he was now at the helm of a very important and influential magazine in his industry.  None of those things brought him the fame of his test pilot exploits, and rightly so. The test flights he took were legendary and they deserved to be. As a matter of fact, as the years past his flights are seen in higher regard not lower.  The farther we get from the time of the flights the more amazing it seems his accomplishments were.  But his other endeavors were valuable, good and worthy of recognition. They proved him to be a man of substance throughout his life, not just an aviation celebrity for one event.

 

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Skeets Coleman on Johnston Island during WWII

 

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Skeets Coleman (3rd on right, front row) and Squadron in WWII

 

I started this out not knowing it would turn into an essay about my father.  But his life is the root of my personal understanding of both hero and celebrity.  I like that he was both and I like that he always knew the difference.

XFY-1 POGO

Here is a 1955 promotional film  that shows what exactly what it was that my father flew in the test fights I have been mentioning.  I think you will be impressed.

 

 

Here is another, shorter video. The volume is very low so you’ll have to turn it up to hear the voiceover.

 

 

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>Who Has Once The Fame

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Day #5 of ‘Fame Week’ at The Napkin Dad Daily
What are you famous for?  Fame at the average person’s level is fame among family, friends, co-workers.  If those who know you were asked ‘what is ‘your name here’ famous for?’ What do you think they would say? At work, are you famous for your patience? Are you well-known for your sales ability?  Is your reputation all about you being able to get things done fast?  

What are you known for is your fame.  

Another way of looking at this is ‘what is your brand?’ Your personal brand identity is really nothing more than your reputation.  The key of course is that once you have built your identity and have a reputation for something, to not lose it.  You see it all the time in businesses and personal lives.  People say they are intellectual because they read deep books in college, but that was 25 years ago and they haven’t explored things intellectually since.  The restaurant that has the great reputation, but now is mediocre and uncaring about the product.

Make sure you are being who you said you were years ago. Make sure you maintain your brand, your identity, otherwise it will catch up to you while you are sleeping.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by James Howell, 1594-1666, British historian and writer

>Fame, Like a Wayward Girl

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Day #4 of ‘Fame Week’ at the Napkin Dad Daily

Have you ever witnessed (or maybe have been in the midst of it yourself) someone who is so desperate for something you just know it is going to slip between their fingers.  It might be a relationship, a job, money, or fame.  But whatever it is, you almost get the feeling there is a cruel joke being played. The person who wants it the most is not going to get it.


I watched an episode of the TV show Survivor last night. And in the episode there was one man who was seeking to be made the leader. He kept asking for a chance to be leader. He begged to be made leader. And the more he begged, the more people saw him as being too desperate and not likely to be a good leader.  The very act of communicating his desire so fervently was the deciding factor in the other people not wanting to help fulfill that desire.  He was not made leader.  He was voted off the island instead.


Whether you become famous or not, in the end you will still be living with yourself day to day, every day.  If you aren’t happy with that person, then being known world-wide is not going to help you.  Being confident inside yourself of your own worth and ability is the most secure way to deal with whatever happens, fame or obscurity.


Drawing by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by John Keats, 1795-1821, English Romantic poet


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>After I Am Dead

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Day #3 of ‘Fame Week’ on The Napkin Dad Daily

We have time travelled backward from yesterday, this quote is by Cato the Elder, who lived right smack dab in between Marcus Aurelius and Socrates.


Cato was a bit of an over achiever.  He was a diplomat, politician, historian and a farmer. He had seen many a monument to people whom he, no doubt, felt were unworthy of the honor but for their station and influence in life.  


His point is simple.  Better to let people say you should be more famous than to say you are not worthy of the fame you have.


Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by Cato the Elder, Roman Renaissance man (before the Renaissance), 234 BCE – 149 BCE

>All is Ephemeral

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Day #2 of ‘Fame Week” at The Napkin Dad Daily.  Today we move into the Roman Empire with a quote by my favorite Emperor, Marcus Aurelius.
So, we started with Socrates talking about the perfume of heroic deeds being what fame is made of.  Now, 500-600 years later we read the Emperor Aurelius saying it will all fade away, fame and the famous.  What happened to make that transformation?

Well, most likely it was Marcus Aurelius’ own observations of the history of his time.  The golden age of Greece was ancient history to him by then, they were unearthing old remnants of that era and reconstructing some element of it but overall they saw it as long gone.  Even the rich and famous and powerful of his day were supplanted and forgotten.  The death of Caesar was already almost 200 years in the past.  That is roughly akin in our era to remembering back to the death of George Washington in 1799.

Yes, George is still famous.  Yes, Caesar is still famous.  But the Emperor is not really talking about those exceptions to the rule. He is talking about the hundreds and thousands and millions of others who thought themselves so important, so indispensable who are now forgotten by all.

It’s a sad thought in some ways, but it is a good thought in many more ways. It keeps us focused on the reality of now.  We may be remembered for a while, maybe hundreds or even thousands of years in some cases. but it’s not likely and it’s not something to depend on.

What we can depend on is now.  You are here now.  What deed can you do now? What obscure and unseen gesture can you do now to help a friend, encourage a co-worker? Will it lead to fame? Not likely. But will it lead to love and kindness growing? Yes, it will.  And that is worth more than all the fame you could ever gather for yourself.

Drawing by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Marcus Aurelius, 121-180 CE, Stoic philosopher, Emperor of the Roman Empire

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