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>Don't Let Your Will Roar

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Day #5 of ‘Free Will’ week at The Napkin Dad Daily
We all desire to do great things.  But we can all get carried away by the desire and then find we lack the capability or resources to do that which we are so excited about. 

When I first moved to Tulsa I worked in a small start up company making educational software (CD-Roms) for children.  But to get the job I had to start at the bottom.  The very bottom.  I scanned hundreds of line drawings for animations.  That is all I did.  I would clean them up in the computer and off they would go to the animator.  I was virtually unskilled labor at that point.  

But I also had 20 years experience as an artist, 9 years experience as an art teacher and 14 years experience as a restaurant manager in a high stress, high volume restaurant. I had moved to Tulsa to take this job, taking a pay cut with the hopes that it would lead to a great opportunity in this new field.  


I also had no fear.  So, when the question was asked at a staff meeting who might like to learn the animation software (Macromedia Director) to help out I wanted to jump up and say ME!  But the lead illustrator, senior to me by a long shot, had the first pick to do it.  But he was used to drawing by hand and just wanted to keep doing that and working a bit in Photoshop.  He said it would be a hassle to learn.  

When he said no, I said yes.

Within a year and a half the animator, the art director, and the producer all either left the company or were let go.  Guess who moved up into each of those positions?  I did. And, more importantly,  I succeeded in those positions. And it all started with me saying yes.

The lead illustrator, a negative bully, quit and went back to home construction, blaming our management for him not being able to go anywhere with his career.

So, my point is that the above quote, while true, is never to be used as an excuse.  If you have the desire then of course you need to be honest about your capabilities. But not having full capabilities doesn’t mean you have NO capabilities.  Your power is greater than you think and is most likely able to back up your will, if you will let it.
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Thomas Fuller, 1608-1661, English churchman, historian and writer


>Power Is The Ability

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It’s pretty clear, we all have power.  And we all have the sovereign right to use it as we wish.


Some will use it to manipulate and coerce.  They might rationalize that into something akin to ‘help’ for others, but it is not.


Some will use it to destroy.  They might rationalize that into something akin to ‘ridding the world of bad things’, but it is not.


Some will use it to dominate.  They might rationalize that into something akin to ‘I only control things for good’ but it is not.


No matter how much power you have, the most fulfilling and ethically sustainable use of it is still the same.  Do good for others.  If that is your definition you will always be powerful.




Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by Brooke Astor, 1902-2007, American philanthropist.  Astor lived to the age of 105!  She was married 3 times, her last being to Vincent Astor, the son of the doomed Titanic passenger, John Jacob Astor IV.  Her life’s motto was “Money is like manure; it’s not worth a thing unless it’s spread around.”

>Beauty is Power – A Remembrance

>Here is an illustration of how this works (at least for a male).

When I was in college I visited a friend in Boston. I went to a party at his house. While there I went searching for the bathroom upstairs. The hall was very dark and dull, the window showed a dark sky with snow falling. A door was slightly cracked open with a bit of light peeking through. There was no one in the hall but I asked out loud where the bathroom was anyway.

The cracked door swung open bringing a bright light followed by an impossibly long sweep of jet black hair falling into the hall. A beautiful female face with a big smile was attached to the hair. She swung her head my way, pointed down the hall and said ‘thataway’.

Everything about that moment has stayed in my mind for three decades. But the center of that memory is the smile. That was the sword that stopped me in my tracks that night.

I made sure I met the person with the beautiful face, radiant smile and the long black hair. We became friends and still are to this day, though we often lose track of each other for years. She turned out to not be a big smiler, nor very much of a happy person at all. But the sword she wielded on that day still shines in my mind.

That is how it worked on me that day and, I suspect, on many others as well.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by John Ray, 1627-1705, English naturalist

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