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Temptation and Decision Fatigue

I read a great article online about Decision Making in the New York Times Magazine this morning. It led me to today’s drawing and topic. I will link to the magazine at the bottom of the page.

temptation

It’s All Your Fault

If you only had more willpower. If you only learned to discipline yourself.  If you only weren’t so spoiled, gluttonous, slothful, lazy, indulgent, selfish, stupid, immature and short-sighted. If only you had more glucose.  WHAT? Glucose?

Well ok, it’s Your Brain’s Fault

Once again, science is making progress in understanding who we are, how we work and what we can do to improve.  There has been a number of studies in recent years that go under the heading of Decision Fatigue and Ego Depletion. What do those terms mean?  Decision fatigue is the phenomenon whereby each decision you make in a day diminishes your willpower and ability to make subsequent decisions.  Your brain acts like a muscle in the sense that it gets tired after so much exercise that it really can’t work that well anymore.  Ego Depletion is when your ability to retain your decision making skills at your ego’s normal level is diminished.  That is why we tend to make bad decisions (or can’t make one at all) in the afternoon or evening, after a long day of decision making.  But why is this? Well, research seems to be indicating that the reason is a depletion of glucose in the brain. Sugar basically.  it doesn’t stop the brain from working, it just stunts the decision making areas of the brain.  

Parole in the Afternoon

In a study of Israeli parole boards they found that being brought up for parole in the early morning, right after breakfast, the convict had a much better chance of recieving parole than a criminal with the same sentence for the same crime had if he came before the parole board late in the morning, before lunch, or late in the afternoon. In all these cases the difference was the board members inability to decide, not the individual merits of the cases. Why was that? Because they had already made so many decisions that the best, easiest decision was to make none at all.  Leave the decision for another day was the best choice in their decision fatigued mind. And what made their mind fatigued in this way? Lack of glucose.

The Dieting Catch 22

So, how does this apply to dieting? Dieting is all about will power, right? It’s all about deciding again and again and again, not to eat certain foods. What does that insistent decision making do? It depletes one’s ego, the person’s ability to make decisions in their best interest. So, what is needed to restore that ability to make the right choice in dieting? Eating is what is needed. What to eat? Sugar.  How is that for a catch 22?

1. In order not to eat, a dieter needs willpower.

2. In order to have willpower, a dieter needs to eat. *

Moral failure vs Brain Science

One of the best things about our paying attention to scientific discoveries is that it lessens judgment but increases our ability to change and grow.  It is the search for the truth that can help us, and the old, simplistic moral condemnation is ineffective (and alway have been) because it doesn’t help us understand and act on what the real truth is. And the real truth is that we must pay attention to our biology, our chemistry, our cultural and social behaviors and analyse them not with ignorant condemnation but with neutral and effective judgment.  

Judge Yes

Judgment of self is not condemnation of self. It is realizing that you are doing this one thing and, without condemning yourself, that can decide that you will change doing that one thing into doing another thing. The truth is you won’t be more effective (and more likely will be less effective) by dumping a truckload of guilt on yourself in the process.  It’s not an excuse and it’s not a license to do something bad. It is just a more effective and positive way to pursue the change you want to see in your life.

 

Do You Suffer From Decision Fatigue? – New York Times Magazine 8/17/11

Let me know what you think of this.

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote by Mae West

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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>Be Not Angry That You Cannot

>As Professor Higgins says in ‘My Fair Lady, ‘Why can’t a woman be more like a man?’ That is a sexist version of what so many wish, that the people they deal with would be different than they are; less annoying, less hard to understand, less odd in the way they do things.

How often is that our first reaction because it is so much easier to desire that than to actually figure out, and implement, how we can change instead.

Not just because we have areas we would like to change, but also so we have a better reaction to those around us. So everyone else isn’t an annoyance, but is just another person to try to understand, like we hope they would try to understand us.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Thomas A’Kempis, 1380-1471, German Priest and Theologian

>Talent without Discipline Is Like An Octopus

>This has probably been the hardest thing for me to implement in my creative life. It is why artists who think they are ready to be seen and heard really aren’t. It is why restaurants fail, why musicians don’t make it, why companies don’t prosper. It’s also known as ‘spreading yourself too thin’ and it lead to stress (see yesterday’s napkin) and frustration.

But the hardest thing to realize is that disciplining yourself also leads to stress and frustration. You purposely have to pull back from things that interest you and you know you could succeed at. You purposely have to forgo some possibly lucrative avenues when you really might need the money. You have to watch others succeed in those directions you decided against. You have to have patience and believe in spite of the current situation.

But, even though discipline AND lack of it can lead to stress and frustration, only one continues on past that forest and into a clearing. The route of discipline moves on, it reaches its goal. So, while you may see the world around you and want to indulge in all of it, if you stay focused and know what you truly want to see happen in one particular direction (ok, maybe two) AND you are willing to do the work, then you will find success on your path.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily blog

Quote by H. Jackson Brown, Jr., no record of date of birth – still alive, American author

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