Category Archives: Feminism

FEMINISM – Week in Review

Back in 2010 I did a series on Feminism that I thought was pretty effective.  How do I know? I think a few people unsubscribed to the NDD as a result so I obviously hit a nerve or two, always a good thing in my book.The drawings and quotes say a certain amount but click on the napkin to go to the original post and read the commentary as well.

What do you think of Feminism as a movement and as an idea?


Feminism #1 – Betty Friedan
Click here for the original post with commentary

 

Feminism #2 – Florynce Kennedy

Click here for the original post with commentary


 

Feminism #3 – Dame Rebecca West

Click here for the original post with commentary


 

Feminism #4 – Henry Kissinger

Click here for the original post with commentary


 

Feminism #5 – Abigail Adams

Click here for the original post with commentary


>Sex Objects

>

Day #5 of Sex Week at The Napkin Dad Daily

Wait a second, isn’t this a sexist comment?  Maybe, if you think being a ‘sex object’ is wrong under any circumstances.  I define ‘sex object’ as being the object of sexual desire.  


It is true in the great myth of Venus.  She is stripped of a well rounded set of human traits, reduced to represent one thing, sex.  The most famous of her images, the sculpture ‘Venus de Milo’ is without arms, unable to do anything but stand there, frozen as an object.  Of course, that isn’t how the sculpture was created, but it’s current state makes it a great example of what I am talking about.


In the media, that idea of sex object is stripped down to its most basic elements.  There is an objectification on top of objectification until you get to where there is nothing but an unknown object and a single minded desire for that object.  That type of ‘sex object’ is pretty empty and eventually unfulfilling for both the object and the objectifier.


But in the complete human experience, a real life lived by a real human (male or female), being the object of sexual desire isn’t off the table.  It is available to the well rounded person who wants that.  The problem comes when that becomes the primary means of feeling value or getting attention and affection.


So, by all means, be a sex object if you want. It can be fun and playful. But watch out for that taking over and being ALL you are focused on being.


Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by Betty Rollins, 1936-not dead yet, American author and reporter.  


……………………………………………………………………..


Don’t forget – Cards of all sorts; birthday, condolences, bon voyage and more, are available at my site on Zazzle.com  Coffee cups too!

>If Particular Care and Attention Is Not Paid

>This is the 5th and final day of the feminism series. I hope you have enjoyed them and have passed them on if you were so inclined.

Who wrote this? Some radical, wild-eyed commie pinko feminist of the 20th century? No, it was Abigail Adams, wife of our 2nd President, John Adams. Obviously from the quote you can surmise she was not alone in this statement. The ‘We’ she is talking about were New England women, raised in a relatively traditional religious atmosphere.

But they were as smart and educated as their husbands. Maybe not in formal schooling, but they read the same books of the enlightenment. They read the same pamphlets. They saw the same spirit of liberty and equality rising up as their husbands saw.

But they knew that the liberty did not really extend to them. They knew lip service was given, but that is not liberty. They knew some men were inclined to agree with them, but that is not liberty.

Standing up for yourself and your cause is the act that forces those who are not voluntarily willing to give liberty to all to give it anyway. Adams didn’t see the day, nor did her daughter or granddaughter. Maybe her Great granddaughter did. But however long it took, you can see it now. Are you grateful for that? Are you aware of the blessing?

I am not talking to women here. I am talking to men and women. I am a man, but I have no interest in living in a world where half of the population, in many ways the smarter half, don’t have a voice, don’t have a vote and can’t contribute as they should be able.

Just don’t forget our history.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Abigail Adams, 1744-1818, American mother, wife, writer, political adviser, revolutionary, activist

>Nobody Will Ever Win The Battle

>Day 4 in the feminism series.

This isn’t about cliche feminism, it’s about facing reality and oneself, no matter your gender. It’s about real feminism, the feminism of equality and differences co-existing in an atmosphere of forgiveness, understanding, admitting wrong, working sincerely for equality, examining self & society and taking responsibility for your part.

Those things are the signs of victory for both sides.

And enjoying each other, don’t forget that!

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Henry Kissinger (I know, really? Yes, really), 1923-not dead yet, German born American Diplomat

>People Call me A Feminist Whenever

>Does that voting booth look a bit dated? It’s a voting booth style that saw American women for the first time, in 1920. That was 90 years ago.

It’s hard to believe that not only didn’t women have the right to vote only 90 years ago but guess what? It was preached from churches, preached in congress, preached in the marketplace, preached in the home, that women weren’t CAPABLE of voting intelligently. And, not only men thought that, some women thought that too and were against having their own right to vote. I am not joking.

Who changed the mind of America? Was it politicians? preachers? theologians? businessmen? No, it was feminists. It was women who fought for what was right. Who argued and protested and were arrested and condemned and shunned and labeled and destroyed in some cases.

Don’t be fooled into thinking that type of thinking is long gone. It isn’t, and it will creep back as long as people, men and women, don’t see it for what it is. Fathers, are you teaching your daughters to be strong and to know themselves, or are you teaching them to be a doormat? Mothers, are you teaching your daughters to respect themselves and to know their value, or are you teaching them to be prostitutes of one stripe or another?

Drawing and Commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Dame Rebecca West, 1892-1983, English Author Read about her amazing life and career here.

………………………………………………………..

Not trivial questions: Which country was the first to allow women to vote? Which countries STILL do not allow women to vote?

analytics tracking