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Truth and Beauty

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The Pursuit of Truth and Beauty

Have you ever realized that without some of your faults you wouldn’t have developed some of your strengths?  That’s how I feel about my pursuit of truth and beauty.  I may not be the best business guy in the world, not high powered, not driven in that way, and it is a fault in some of my efforts. But that lack also has allowed the door to remain open for me in my other pursuits, those of beauty, truth and love.  I am not making an excuse. I should, and will, be better about those other areas. I am working on them and want to work on them.  But, nonetheless, it is true that lack in one area can be the cause of abundance in others.


What lacking in your makeup has allowed other strengths to come out, other doors to open?
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Albert Einstein, Scientist.


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>I Don't Think About What Others Think About

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Good and bad, not to think about what others think about.  Bad if your child wants to hold your hand and you are oblivious.  Good if someone thinks your hair is too blue and you love your blue hair.


Good if you are a creative sort and your career, well-being, success, etc. is wrapped up in you being original in your creative production.  You can’t be original in production if you aren’t original in your thoughts.  Bad if you are aren’t paying any attention to the desires and intentions of your clients and so miss the boat in your creative endeavors again and again.


Good if you are focused on a goal you really want to achieve and you are able to ignore what the naysayers are thinking and saying about your efforts.  Bad if wise and trusted people are trying to tell you truth and you are escaping reality and not facing the truth.


Whenever someone says to me ‘I don’t care what anybody thinks’ I usually come away with the impression they are fighting VERY hard to not care but in fact they do.  Everyone does to some degree. What they really mean is ‘I don’t care what CERTAIN people think.’  


Thus, a key to maturity, wisdom and peace is knowing the difference between those whom you do care what they think and those whom you do not.  Find that out and admit it to yourself and you are on your way to being a true individual in the world.


Drawing, quote and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

>It Is Easier To Believe A Lie Heard

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Day #5 of Lying Week at The Napkin Dad Daily
There is only one way to know if you are being told lies.  You MUST be a self-educator.  

Where might you be told lies?  We can start with religion, culture, science, nationality, race, education, government, nutrition, fitness, illness, sexuality or history.  The list goes on and on.

In those situations (and many more) how do you know if you are being told lies or not? Maybe you aren’t, maybe you are.  But how do you know?  You know if you seek answers from multiple sources.  If you are in a ghetto then you aren’t likely to get those multiple sources.  (I don’t use the word ghetto in a derogatory fashion. It’s original meaning was a place isolated from it’s surrounding area for one reason or another. I am using simply as a description of isolation.)

I don’t mean a physical ghetto. I mean an intellectual ghetto, a mental awareness walled off from the wider world.  If you only listen to people and ideas that come from within that intellectual ghetto, then there is a good chance you will have a distorted view.  At the least you will have a view by default. It won’t be one you came to be exploration, it will be one you came to by taking the path of least resistance and not taking responsibility for your own thorough education.

I have known a number of people, for example, within the Christian community who think they have thought through an issue. But in truth they have simply mulled over a pre-determined, pre-packaged ‘thoughts ready to think’ supplied by those in charge of their ghetto.  They haven’t read or listened to ideas outside that ghetto.  This is true in both liberal and conservative congregations I have been a part of.  So, while they believe they have come to their own conclusions, their lack of objective exploration outside the ghetto belies that assumption.  

To be fair, I do know many, including the Pastors of the two churches I attend regularly (one liberal, one conservative), who are constantly exploring outside the confines of their own congregation’s leanings and heritage.  

I appreciate and applaud the people who do this.  They are the ones I trust to be truly searching for truth.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

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>I've Seen Honest Faces Before

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Day #4 of ‘Lying Week’ at The Napkin Dad Daily
Smiles don’t equal honesty.  Beauty does not equal honesty.  Handsomeness, charm, sincere listening, thoughtful words…none of those things equal honesty.  Honesty is not in a face, not in eyes, not in a voice. Honesty is only in one place, and that is action.  That action might be true words spoken, yes.  But honesty is most likely to be seen in what a person does, not what they say. And especially not what they look like.

Those who say ‘he has an honest face’ are fooling themselves.  Faces aren’t honest, people are.

Drawing by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by ….. Willow from the TV Series ‘Buffy the Vampire Slayer’.

>Truth is the Safest Lie

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Day #3 of Lying Week at The Napkin Dad Daily
I think this is a great quote.  What it says to me is that telling the truth is an art.  It is within the realm of truth that you are allowed the greatest leeway.  You can craft that truth in such a way that it is kinder or meaner, transparent or opaque, light-hearted or deadly serious.

Manipulating the truth is not the same as crafting the truth.  Crafting it means you use your wisdom and knowledge to say something the best way you can.  Manipulating the truth means you use your knowledge to make that truth sound like it is a different truth, a truth you want your rabid followers to hear for example, or that you tell to get money or attention.  Those manipulated truths are half-truths, they are mutated truths.  And those are lies.

You can see it in politicians but even more so you can see it in the mean-spirited demagogues who rule the airwaves.  They aren’t interested in the truth, they are interested in manipulating people to do what they want.  And what they want is to have adulation, power, prestige and money.  It’s the most depressing thing I know about modern society at this time.  It is an embarrassment and they should be ashamed.  But they aren’t.

Drawing by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote is a Jewish proverb
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