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Who Cares?

bankers

Banking on Care

I am not against bankers and I am not against banks.  But I am against them saying they are one thing when they actually are another.  Just like any other business, they, as a corporation, are not set up to care about you. They are set up to make money for their shareholders. That is what drives them and sustains their operations.  If they don’t do that, the bosses lose their jobs and so do a lot of other people. That is how banks, insurance companies and other ‘service’ industry businesses work.

But what about when they say they care about you?  The individuals in that bank or insurance company may indeed care about you for no other reason but that they do.  But the company itself? It does not care about you in the same way.  It cares about you as a paying customer, as a PR help, as a problem, as an easy mark, as a taker who isn’t making them much money, or any number of other designations.  But the company itself doesn’t care about you.  

Care in the Corner Office

The higher up the person in that company is, the less they can care about you. This is not because they are money grubbing capitalists.  They might be giving away a ton of money to charity. They might be caring for their entire extended family.  Then again, they might be money grubbing.  But, even if the higher ups have a heart of gold, they are unlikely to care about you. Why? Because they don’t have contact with you.  The higher up they are the more contact they have with the shareholders, not you.  The shareholders care about you as a vehicle for them to make money.  It sounds severe and cold and mean. But it isn’t. It’s just the way companies work.

Care is not a product

What matters isn’t if they care or not, it’s if the product they sell helps you or not.  Their ads, their PR, their front man or woman in the branch office may all say we care, but since we aren’t naive enough to believe that, all that really matters is whether you are getting what you pay for.  Pay attention to that and you won’t be under false expectations and let down when the truth comes out: they don’t care about you.

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Drawing by Marty Coleman

Quote by Mark Twain

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Zen #2 – Drops of Water

In case you want to be one with it, it’s day two of Zen Week at the NDD.

Good question.  What’s your answer?
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Drawing and question by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote is a Zen Saying
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Only a Fool

Sometimes it’s good to jump in, other times it’s not.  When to be careful and when to throw caution to the wind is a delicate art. It can lead to bad consequences and it can lead to great leaps of wonder.  How to know the difference isn’t easy.  The only advice I have is to be as thoughtful and intelligent as best you can, but test with one foot first!
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote is an African proverb

Island of Knowledge, Shoreline of Wonder

I love this quote.  Contrary to some religious cliches spoken by uneducated people living in fear, you are NOT doing something wrong by becoming educated and then relying on that education to help you make good judgments in life.

The best example of this for me is my eldest daughter, Rebekah.  She is the most curious, knowledge seeking person I know. She has enthusiasm and energy for anyone and anything that comes alongside her on her journey.

After high school she decided to go to a unique school, St. John’s College, in Annapolis, Maryland.  The curriculum is inspired by the Great Books collection that was published back in the 30s out of the University of Chicago. They study the major disciplines from the original source material dating back to the ancient Greeks and moving forward historically. They do the science experiments, the math problems, and discuss the philosophical issues that the great minds throughout history have taken on.  All the students study the same curriculum and get the same degree, basically a degree in Philosophy and Math.

Her time there led her to find an area of further study that one doesn’t usually associate with an esoteric curriculum of Philosophy. She decided to go into Neuroscience.  She is now a Ph.D. candidate in Neuroscience at George Mason University in Virginia.  She is what I consider to be a budding superstar in her field.

But here is the funny thing. She is still the most enthusiastic little girl when it comes to her life. She loves going into creeks and finding frogs and turtles. She loves video games and can whoop most anyone’s rear in Halo and any other hard-ass ‘boys’ games.  She loves martial arts and singing in her Unitarian Choir.  She will call me up and be talking about cellular biology with the same enthusiasm and joy that she had as a little girl talking about American Girl dolls or our garden in the backyard.

I love her for that and this quote is all about that love for her.
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Drawing by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote author unknown

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