Category Archives: women

Breasts vs Boobs – Breasts Week #1

A number of friends of mine are currently battling Breast Cancer.  Many more have battled it in the past.  I will address the cancer side of breasts in my artwork soon but in the meanwhile it got me thinking not just about cancer but about breasts in general. I thought I would do a series investigating how we use the idea and the reality of breasts in our lives; corporate, individual, commercial, political, literary and emotional.

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Breasts vs Boobs

 

BREASTS IN POLITICS

I thought this quote was pretty funny. Good wordplay combined with a strong political statement. And it’s an understandably alluring idea; that the key to success in a political endeavor is to bring in people who have not been properly represented and who offer a different way of viewing issues than the powers who have been in control.  

But the truth is having breasts isn’t a good reason to vote for someone because having breasts doesn’t stop people from being boobs.  In my home state of Oklahoma we have a number of women in power, and, in my opinion, many of them are damaging women’s progress in the world, not furthering it.  Fair representation matters, yes. But having breasts isn’t the deciding factor in good governance.  What matters is ideas and execution of those ideas, whether one has breasts or not.

But I do agree the boobs have got to go!

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote by Claire Sargent, former candidate for US Senate from Arizona, 1992.

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Should We Condemn the Past? – History Lesson #4

1, 2, and 3 are past, so that makes this day #4 of History Lesson Week.

Should we condemn the past? History Lesson #4

 

INFURIATIONS
This sentiment, ‘every past is worth condemning’, probably infuriates you as it did me when I first read it.  I am often the one in arguments about history to defend the past era and the decisions made then.  I don’t mean I approve of them, obviously I would not make many of the same decisions now.  But that’s the point; I am in the present, not the past.  Just as you have to take into consideration the age and mental capacity of your child when you react to what they say and do, you must do the same for the people of the past.  They knew what they knew and as a result they said and did thing based on that knowledge, not based on our knowledge.  So, I typically am against condemning the past, even if we now can say we don’t approve of the actions they took.

But after reading this simple sentence over a number of times I am starting to see the value in it.  By condemning the past and how they acted we are saying that we have learned, we have grown, we have gone beyond their understanding.  That of course can be a two-edged sword. Not all knowledge from the past is wrong and often we find ourselves as a society moving back to past practices because we have found that our ‘progress’ really wasn’t so progressive.  But plenty of knowledge from that past is worth condemning.

RATIONALIZATIONS
We don’t need to reexamine if slavery is something we should bring back. It has been condemned as wrong and we will not return to it.  We don’t need to investigate if the subjugation of women is something we want to reinstitute.  We know they are equal to the male of the species in every way and we are not going to return to the days of them being condemned to a lesser life.  We condemn that attitude and any and all rationalizations, however valid they may have seemed at some point in the past.  We know now they are not valid and we will not let them be used again.

THE PAST AS PRESENT
The last point about women brings us to a dilemma.  The past isn’t always in the past.  We have subjugation of women going on all over the globe as I write this today.  They are not allowed to vote, to drive, to own property, to have their own money, to participate as an equal member of society. The societies that are perpetrating this are still using the same arguments we once used not so long ago (don’t forget, less than 100 years ago women did not have the right to vote in the USA).

We can also find it with us today in the US and other supposedly enlightened western countries.  You don’t have to go much farther than the headlines of the last week over Rush Limbaugh’s disgusting statements about one woman in particular (and be inference virtually all women in the US) to know we still have a long way to go to move past some of those same rationalizations we thought we had left behind.

 

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche, 1844-1900, German philosopher

 

Who Chooses Who? – Laws of Attraction #3

It’s day #3 of Laws of Attraction Week at the NDD. I might have to spill over into next week, but not sure yet!

woman man

Is this true?  Discuss.

Drawing and question by Marty Coleman, who likes blue eyeshadow (but not on himself).

Quote by Anonymous, who does not like blue eyeshadow.

Sketchbook History Tour, 2004 – Drawings with Writing All Over Them

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I wrote on top of drawings often in 2004.  I was paying a lot of attention to colors and details, listening and absorbing, that I wasn’t going to get in the drawing so I thought writing about those things right on the drawing was an interesting way to do it.   I wrote stream of consciousness, not trying to be grammatically correct.  Transcript follows each drawing.
The Reading Woman
The reading woman with the nice forehead and small glasses and the wonderful ear and the revolutionary looking boyfriend and the blue t-shirt and the thin hands and fingers contemplating an article on common language while a silly girl laughs in the distance and her purse just sits there looking smart at Barnes & Noble on Prom Night for Chelsea and Carolina at Union High on a cool April night after a week of wicked weather including tornadoes and gardening in Tulsa, OK.
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The Classy Student
The classy student studying with grey eye shadow and glimmery lips while her boyfriend, who looks young and too young for her reads a magazine with 3 bug bites on his left ankle in a row looking like a constellation and she uses a blue and red pen and huge earrings, the biggest I have ever seen with her left hand and very small delicate fingers with no polish in Norman, Oklahoma on a summer’s night that threatens to rain while the girls behind her wear red sooner shirts and read and talk about the young star who is too thin and I draw instead of read the manual of the class I am here for while I catch a bright pink purse pass by a tall guy sitting in yellow.
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The Chunky-Haired Woman
The woman with 10 colored markers and some paper she is highlighting with chunky hair with lots of highlights in it and sun coming through the window highlighting her cheek and shirt that has pink highlights in it among white and big lips with frosted lipstick that is sparkly and has highlights of the same color pink while I wait for the agent to be done so she can give me my new ticket and voucher to take a later flight and still make it into Seattle for the conference that I am going to in July after my Uncle’s funeral yesterday in Ft. Worth that I drove to with Linda the night before and visited with long-lost cousins and Aunt Jean.
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The Ugly Woman
The ugly woman with the ugly words coming out of her dark mouth while she stared at nothing with her glaring eyes and heart while all around her love lingered and waited until she finished but she never did on that September night.
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The Two Woman
The woman with more hair who could do flamenco curls on her jaw if she wanted talking hesitantly to the friend with the thin eyes and arched eyebrows and lower lip that jutted out who was judging her friend’s mascara as too thick and dark (but I liked it) about why her boyfriend won’t commit and not knowing what to do and how she wakes up at night sure that someone is b
reaking in and she wonders if she should get a boob job to be more sexy for him and if that would help and her friend says maybe.
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Drawings by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Embarrassment #3 – Poetry by Keats

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It’s embarrassing to have a whole week dedicated to embarrassment! But today is day 3, too late to turn back now!
I was going to make this into a cup like the others, but really, who wants a cup with a crying person on it, ya know?

I like this drawing, it’s indicative of something important for girls (and women who didn’t learn it when they were girls) to remember.  In general, men don’t have the guilt and embarrassment gene at the same level women do.  

We have the gene, some more than others, but it’s my experience at least that women have it in a much larger dosage.  So, girls, beware when you enter into a situation such as is illustrated above. The guy might be kind, nice, thoughtful, understanding, etc. But don’t expect him to feel or understand the level of embarrassment or guilt you feel in having done something you think is wrong.  He might think it was wrong as well, but it is unlikely he is going to feel as strongly about it as you do.  

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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

Poem by John Keats, 1795-1821, English Romantic Poet

One year ago today at The Napkin Dad Daily:  Falling in Love
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