Vintage napkin from 2004. Drawn for my youngest daughter (at the time) and put in with her lunch.
So, maybe the key to enduring our own misfortune is to act as if we are someone else.  Nice thought but we truly only have to endure our own pain first hand.  Empathy and sympathy are the closest we can get to feeling what others feel.  That is why those traits are of great value in having others feel love from you.  Yes, it does increase our pain a bit, but the love and solace we give by being empathetic and sympathetic to others is well worth it.
 
Drawing and commentary © Marty Coleman

“We all have the strength to endure the misfortunes of others.” – François de La Rochefoucauld