After a bit of time away from drawing I am back on my Wealth Series.
Without
A typical biography will often have a line in it that goes something like this, “We didn’t have much money growing up, but we never felt poor.” Why is that? Why do some poor families feel poor and others not? What is it that divides them?
Who is Wealthy?
Of course, necessities are one thing. People who don’t have a safe roof over their heads, who can’t get enough to eat, likely they feel as poor as they are. But just up from that level of poverty, what about the family who can’t afford vacations or new cars or cable TV or new clothes? Why do one of those families feel poor and another not? I would think often it would be about comparisons made with others. Not necessarily by the kids, but by the parents. The parents might be constantly saying, “I wish we had this, or I wish we could do that.”
The Never Ending Climb
You would think that wouldn’t be a big deal the wealthier you get. But the truth is it gets MORE severe the more money you have. One family takes ski vacations to Aspen, but your family can only afford to ski locally in Vermont. Sounds silly that one would feel deprived, but if the parents are constantly harping on how they can’t afford something then the kids will learn they indeed don’t have enough no matter how much they have.
Appreciation and Gratitude vs Envy
The key for me is appreciation and gratitude. For example, I appreciate my little charcoal grill out back. I don’t look at it and see that I don’t have the same giant gas grill my friend has, I look at it and see the enjoyment I am getting from cooking on it. I am grateful for it. If someday I need a new grill I will figure out how big I need it to be for me and my family and I will do my best to get that grill. But it won’t be because of envy over what someone else has, it will be based on my need and what I can afford. And I will be happy with that.
You can see the entire Wealth Series here
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman
Quote by Epicurus, 341 – 270 B.C., Greek philosopher – Find out more about Epicurus here.
Licensed under Public domain via Wikimedia Commons.
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Guess it’s all relative? When I was a kid I used to think all adults were rich because they didn’t have to ask their parents for money to buy a lemonade, they just bought it with their own money.
So true. I had no idea who was and wasn’t wealthy among my friends growing up. Once I got to high school I started to figure it out a bit, but really it wasn’t until adulthood and I looked back at my life that I had a better understanding of what wealth meant.