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Near is Easy

Have you ever started something and not finished it? Of course you have. We all have. Granted, some more than others. I am probably in the middle of the pack. I finish a lot but then again there is plenty I don’t finish.  Most of what I don’t finish doesn’t ever get beyond the idea stage. If you are like me, even a little bit, the enthusiasm hits hard but implementation fails as the enthusiasm wanes.

Far is Easy

The goal is always so glorious, isn’t it?  We all imagine the feeling of winning, or publishing, or fame, or wealth, or a secure relationship.  It’s easy to imagine that joy. It’s easy to say you want that happiness. It’s easy to say you are going to do the work to get that wealth.  But imagination and saying something aren’t what makes it happen.

In Between is Hard

So how do you keep going during those long stretches where the enthusiasm has waned, the money has drained and the relationship has pained?  Of course you need to have that goal in mind. You have to have hope that you can reach it. But it is more than that.  The truth is you aren’t always doing something for the feeling it gives you at the moment. You are living through that feeling so that you will reach a finish line where great feelings and great achievements will come to fruition. It might be a book you write, it might be a painting you paint, it might be a relationship you develop.  

Making Hard Easy

You can’t make hard easy.  But you can make it easier. You make it easier by practicing habits.  The habit of getting up every morning and doing 10 push ups will make getting in shape easier, no matter how hard it is.  The practice of writing that email to a business connection each morning will make the hard work of networking easier, no matter how hard it is.  The practice of saying (and meaning) something loving and kind to your relationship partner each morning will make it easier to build the relationship, no matter how hard it is.

In other words, you aren’t trying to make something hard into something easy. You are trying to make it easier to do something hard.  Making a habit of the things that help you along that path is one way to do that.


 

Drawing and commentary © 2015 Marty Coleman | napkindad.com

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