Sometimes I feel like that myself.  I am a very social person and I actually keep up with many people from my past, people who are life-long friends, but like many men, I don’t have a ton of close guy friends.


I first realized this when I got divorced in 2000.  One of the elements that led up to the divorce caused there to be a split between friend and I.  Until that happened I thought of him as a guy I saw once in a while. We socialized, had some creative and extended family elements in common, but that was about it.  But after it happened I realized that he was one of my closest guy friends.  It actually seemed sort of pathetic to me at the time.  This guy I spend barely any time with turns to be one of my closest friends.  It made the divorce all the harder.


That is one reason I like organized recreation, such as the running group I am in.  I have been injured lately (achilles tendon) and so have not been running.  I have really missed it. In part because of the exercise (I have gained weight for sure) but also because of the friendships.  I miss hearing what is going on in people’s lives. I miss telling stories of my life.  I miss encouraging my friends.


Yesterday I mentioned something I used to say to my daughters as they went to school in the morning. I would say ‘Make good friends, keep good friends’.  How do you do those two things?
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by Rose MaCaulay, 1881-1958, British writer
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One year ago today at the NDD – Politics is More Dangerous
Two years ago – Bowling God Day
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