A Tale of Four Camps – Making Mistakes #2

 

If I am not mistaken, today is day two of  our ‘Making Mistakes’ series.

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In The Beginning

When I was in about 4th grade I did an art piece. It was a collage with painting. It had pieces of newspapers here and there on the paper, with big areas of white and big areas of red overlapping them.  When I had got that far I looked at it and thought it still looked boring, wasn’t complete. So I took some blue paint and sort of drip/splattered ala Jackson Pollack, all over the piece.  I thought it looked great.  

However, my best friend, Craig, looked at it and said something I have never forgotten. He said, ‘You ruined it with that last blue splatter stuff.  You always go to far with your art.’ Now I know what you are thinking…4th grade? Really? Who were you two pretending to be, Matisse and Picasso?  But as odd as it sounds, that is exactly how it came down.

The Editor

I remembered that admonition from Craig throughout all my years in High School, College, Graduate School and as a practicing and exhibiting artist. I remember it not because it was true in that particular instance, I still liked the piece and that it was better with the blue splatters, but because it was my first real lesson in looking at art as not just what you do but what you don’t do, what you leave out.  It was my first encounter with the verbalized idea of editing.

As I went about getting my degrees in art back in the 70s and 80s I saw the lesson lived out again and again, in my own development and in the development of my fellow artists. The ones who progressed, who moved forward and got better, were the ones who spent as much time discerning, editing and rejecting as they did creating.  The ones who languished were the ones who only created and never edited.  The created, but they didn’t create art.  At least not art of a very high caliber.  

The Tale of Three Camps

They were in one of two camps. They either were too easily satisfied, never going far enough or they always went too far.  Of the two camps, ‘Camp Too Far’ was always the more interesting and compelling. It’s like a Ferrari that goes too fast. Seeing it speed by is energizing and a bit scary and perhaps seeing the wreck down the road may be hard to look at, but you look anyway.  I’ve been in that camp before (As Craig pointed out). ‘Camp Not Far Enough’ is like Ferrari driven too slow by a little old lady.  Not only is it boring to watch but it is frustrating because you know the potential is there, they just won’t put on the gas.  Rarely have I been in ‘Camp Not Far Enough’.

Of course, for me, the camp I aspire to live in, and do so more and more as the years progress, is ‘Camp Far’.  It’s like the driver who may drive fast at times but knows when to speed up and when to slow down. They don’t often wreck, but they also are willing to risk having a glorious failure in their attempt to push their passion to where it needs to go. The driver knows the accelerator and the brake pedals are next to each other for a reason.

The Fourth Camp

Are you willing to make a mistake? If you aren’t then you aren’t likely to achieve much either.  You might be in another camp. The one Henry David Thoreau named ‘Camp Quiet Desperation’.  You don’t want to be in that camp.

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Drawing and Commentary by Marty Coleman

Quote by Scott Adams, 1957 – not dead yet, American cartoonist. Creator of Dilbert.

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Embarrassment #5 – Predicting Success

I was thinking yesterday what keeps me from being more successful in my various efforts to create my Napkin Dad transnational mega global world dominating corporation and I think it’s because, cliche of all cliches, I am afraid of failure. What? who me? Not me.  I try all sorts of things. I have done the most outrageous things to get jobs, publicity, girlfriends, wives, kids (well, ok, what I did to get kids wasn’t all that outrageous).  
 
But what I really mean is what this quote is saying. I don’t like being embarrassed. Now, that is funny because anyone who knows me will tell you I don’t get embarrassed easily.  I was raised in a pretty immodest family so being naked never freaked me out. I can talk about any topic under the sun, in most any circumstances, and I won’t become embarrassed. I will try physical or mental challenges that I have no reason attempting. IN general, I don’t think about embarrassment.
 
But here is the key:  I don’t know it’s embarrassment that I am feeling and fearing. All I know is I don’t want to do something. I avoid it. I distract myself. I do work-arounds.  I do it myself instead of asking for help for fear of looking stupid in ways I think the person I am asking would never think I was.  
 
There is one quote I didn’t use this week that I really liked. It’s by Lynn Swann, the famous football player for the Pittsburgh Steelers. Here it is: ‘Some people play very, very well just so they won’t get embarrassed.’  People tend to be one or the other, the high achiever to avoid embarrassment, or the non-achiever. But I am both, just depends what day it is.
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Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily
 
Quote by Scott Adams, 1957 – not dead yet, American cartoonist, creator of Dilbert.
 
One year ago today on The Napkin Dad Daily: Everyone is Kneaded
 
 

Defining Humans – updated 2017

This is a cynical quote I know, and I am usually not a cynical guy. This quote is also a pretty accurate observation about the lengths to which we humans will go to feel secure. When I say ‘feel secure’ I am not talking about actually being secure. I am talking about having the hope, the assumption, the desire for security all wrapped up with the methods to get that security.

Who doesn’t pursue it? It is a rare individual. But there are differences among people who nonetheless reside in close proximity to one another in socio-economic levels. One person takes losing a lover in stride and moves on, the other goes over the top and becomes a stalker. One person lives and breathes by the lottery numbers, another plays it and forgets they even have the ticket a day later. One person lives with guilt all day everyday and the worry of eternal salvation that may or may not result. Another person feels guilty but doesn’t worry about the afterlife.

Why is this? What drives us in our fears and thoughts? How do we grow into the best understanding of ourselves and our world and behave accordingly?

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily blog

“Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating and religion.” -Scott Adams, 1957-not dead yet, American Cartoonist – Creator of Dilbert