>Sunny Sun – The Napkin Dad's Encyclopedia of Characters and Stuff

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It’s summer and it’s hot so it’s time for Sunny Sun to enter the Pantheon of Characters in the Napkin Dad’s Encyclopedia.


Sunny Sun is positive and happy, a natural life giver.  She can get angry though, and sometimes burns people who don’t pay attention to her.


She shows up in the napkins frequently, often representing the idea of persistence.  Keep on keepin’ on and Sunny Sun will show up again eventually, no matter how she tries to hide behind her friend, the sweet Puffy Cloud or his scarier cousins T. Hunder and Tory Nado.


Sometimes S. Sun can be seen multiple times in the same sky.  That is a mystery how that happens.


You can’t go wrong following Sunny, she will never let you down.


Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily

>Heat and Truth

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Day #2 of Heat Week at The Napkin Dad Daily.  It’s 97ºƒ (108º heat index) / 37ºc (42.2º) Here in Tulsa, Oklahoma (USA) again today.

“It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.”  


Have you ever heard that line spoken to you? I have.  They didn’t like my way of talking and that kept them from being able to hear what I was saying. In most cases it was my fault. I was saying things in a way that obscured rather than clarified.  It’s like a graphic design advertisement that is so wild and over the top that you can’t read any of the words on it.  That isn’t a good strategy if you are trying to communicate.


The same goes for arguments regarding ‘truth’. The overheated blowhards who rant and rave against whatever their flavor of the week is aren’t doing their cause any favors. The hot air they put out is entertainment for their minions but it doesn’t build a foundation of intelligent and thoughtful argument. It’s simply the scorching wind of heat without light.


The antidote is to be cool and thoughtful in your response. It may not seem to be the most entertaining and often doesn’t have that satisfying adrenalin rush that an angry rant has, but in the long run it is the most effective way to put your argument forward.

Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by William Penn, 1644-1718, founder of the state of Pennsylvania

>Heat and Light

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Someone told me I should do a series on heat since it has been so hot this summer around the entire North American continent (and parts of Europe I hear). So, it’s Heat Week at The Napkin Dad Daily!

One of the easiest things to do is change your mind due to being intellectually enlightened.  But changing behavior from your heart, your core, that is very hard to do by cool intellectual thought.  Of course eventually if you change your mind about something you might find yourself changing your attitudes or behaviors down the road, incrementally.  And it’s likely they will be long lasting as a result.  But a sudden transformation? Not as likely.


Heat on the other hand will cause changes faster than you can say ‘fire truck’.  That is why AA and other addiction programs talk about a person having to hit rock bottom before they will change.  They have to feel the heat of their life falling down all around them.  Maybe they lose everything, are at the end of their rope. That sort of heat leads to change.  You see it often in religious conversions as well as behavior changes.  


The problem with heat related changes is they can often be short-lived.  The emotion, the danger, the fear all lead to a promise to change, and will to change, but once the heat has passed, it takes a cool light to continue to lead the way, to make a change permanent.  That is why threats of hell or damnation or some other fear based idea aren’t good.  They make people feel heat, but they don’t help them see the light.


So, whether with yourself, family, friends or your children always be ready to supply the light when the heat has died down, which it eventually will.  


Drawing and commentary by Marty Coleman of The Napkin Dad Daily


Quote by Caroline Schoeder, no information available. If you find any, forward it to me please, thank you.